This week I observed people’s interactions and tried to detect examples of microaggression. I really did not know what to expect in the beginning. I was at a local fast food restaurant and noticed a lady in front of me ordering several meals. The man at the register said “wow, someone must be hungry”. The lady placing the order did not say anything, only looked down towards the ground. I noticed as she was getting into her car with her order, that she had a car full of people. People are quick to judge people based on their size and/or appearance. The message the cashier sent to the lady was that she eats a lot of food. I felt like he was insinuating that she should not be eating that much food. I felt bad for her; because I could tell he hurt her feelings. I do not think the cashier intended to insult her or assume anything, but his words and behavior were disrespectful and hurtful.
After observing people in public situations, I realized how often people discriminate against others. I do not think people intend to be prejudice or stereotypical towards others, but their actions and behaviors definitely impact those around them. This exercise was definitely an eye opener for me.
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